TMC Administration Notes - February / March 2005

Letter from the Chair

Greetings and Happy New Year from the Board Chair. It is excellent timing to come out with an issue addressing transitions since we have just met for our annual meeting with a terrific turnout despite the fanny freezing temperature. We will be conducting the annual planning meeting on January 29. Elections were held. We are fortunate to be adding new faces to the crew: Tommy Jones, Langford Dudley, and Steve Larson, welcome. Thanks go out to Bill Dobbs who will be continuing his work on the newsletter and our website after several years of Board membership.

One of the most striking features of our meeting was the time spent letting participants talk about their connection to this organization. From co-founder to new volunteer, stories of how the Men's Center has adapted, struggled, persevered, and grown, were humbling and inspiring. It was noted that many men's centers have existed in the region and how we are one of the last. It seems that there are two primary reasons for our longevity. One, as we listened to these personal accounts, it was apparent that, after beginning with a single support group in the 70's, there have been those in the membership who have actively responded to diverse needs being identified in the community. The second reason is that we have extraordinary volunteers who give what they can, when they are able. (And they play well with others.)

Perhaps it's just the wind chill but I think some new energy is flowing in 2005 that will extend and enhance the fine history already made at the Center. So get involved, stay involved, and don't worry about what you can or can't do. Giving is a beautiful thing.

Live long and prosper,
Bob Eng,
Board Chair

Library Corner

–– Don Jensen, Librarian

Using the library is a membership privilege. To check out a book, all you have to do is write your name. phone number, and the date on a checkout card and leave it in the box. Or just come in and browse – you will be surprised at how stimulating it can be to expose yourself to the books in our collection. So come on in and take a look.

Added to our library is a notebook of poems – The Kabin Book – with versions by Robert Bly. We also have many periodicals and newsletters for your use, such as:

  • Men's Health
  • Voice Male
  • Lavender
  • Men's Journal
  • Transitions
  • Rainbow Families
  • Bi All Means
  • Wellness Journal
  • The Edge
  • Everyman
  • D.A.D.S.#1

Please be sure you use the library check-out system. And if you have overdue books, please return them so others can benefit from them.

Enjoy your library!

Library Books Lost

We have a free and trusting lending library policy -- in exchange, men who borrow books must return them. Have you borrowed one of the books on this list? If they have been helpful to you, they will be helpful to other men. Please make the effort to return them to the Men's Center library. Thanks!

Raising Boys
The Inner Male
Why Can't Men Grow Up?
The Inoffensive Gay Manual
Is It Love or Is It Addiction?
The Verbally Abusive Relationship
Basic Writings
Man to Man
The Hours
Tim and Pete
Men on Divorce
How to Work for a Jerk
101 Men's Health Secrets
Get Rid of that Gut
Taking Care After 50
Quiet Strength Meditations...
Rescuing Our Sons from the Myths of Boyhood
McGill Report on Male Intimacy
Women Can't Hear What Men Don't Say
The Men's Book
The Sexpert
Bad Boys and Tough Tattoos
The Bisexual Option
Book of Guys
Father & Child Reunion
Male Menopause
If You Really Love Me
Meditations From the Road
Father's Rights
The Myth of Male Power